Expanding Horizons

Great Expectations

As as you might half expect from the title of today's address, Jennie's starting point is a brief "recap" of Charles Dickens's novel of the same name. But - to quote Jennie's intro - "if you've come to this address with "Great Expectations", you might as well resign yourself to having them dashed to the ground!" - Or should you?
According to one best-selling author, life-coach and podcast host who has made a career of steering people and organizations to their highest potential - having no expectations, accepting what is - would be infinitely easier and you'd be happier. Or would you? While this advice seems somewhat inconsistent with what we might expect from a life-coach's business plan, Jennie asks us "Should we have great expectations or not?" And what expectations should we have in relationships?…in marriage? And what about women's expectations and the under-utilisation of their talents in music, medicine and many other fields? Expectations shape reality.
Listen on to a wonderful address given in our Adelaide Church on Sunday, 3rd October!

Lumpy in Lycra

Miranda, one of our younger members - leads us in today's service today held on 26th September 2021. Miranda's subject is allodoxaphobia - the fear of what others might be thinking of us or - even worse still - overhearing other people’s opinions about us that confirm our worst fears.
Miranda raises the question - "If all of us a little allodoxaphobic, how can we move beyond this fear and live our lives to the full?" Our seven Unitarian Universalist (U.U.) Principles challenge us to do so.
Under Miranda's direction and involvement, we then form into small groups to discover - through sharing - how our UU Principles may help with our allodoxaphobia. Listen on!

Now I‘m a Believer

Jennie's address today, this 19th September, 2021 - is on the subject of Belief ... e.g. belief in Love! - even love that may …..at times....frequently? fall well short of Bliss!
Jenny also acknowledges the recent death of the former Episcopalian Bishop of Newark, John Spong who subjected all the unbelievable bits of scripture to a rational, 20th Century scientific scrutiny that is so congruent with Unitarian Universalist beliefs today. Listen on!

Flower Communion

This early Spring Sunday - 12th September, saw us celebrating our annual Unitarian Flower Communion, first held by Unitarian minister, Norbert Čapek in Prague, Czechoslovakia in June 1923. Each person would bring a flower to church. Early in the service, each would place a flower in a large central vase and at the conclusion of the flower communion, each would depart with a different flower. This sharing of flowers within the Flower Communion is a celebration of the uniqueness and diversity of flowers - and of each other. We also remember the martyrdom of Norbert Čapek in 1942, when he was taken to the Dachau concentration camp, imprisoned, tortured and eventually gassed.
Norbert Čapek leaves the Flower Communion to us as his lasting legacy.

About Fear

Our Lay Leader, Jennie Dyster's address today is on Fear. Jennie begins with the reading of a letter written almost five Centuries ago by Martin Luther to the Rev. Doctor Johann Hess, a pastor at Breslau. Hess had earlier sought Luther's advice on whether taking steps to avoid the Bubonic plague sweeping Germany in 1527 showed lack of faith. Or should the faithful let the will of an Almighty God decide who lives or dies  - and do nothing?
Luther's advice is reminiscent of the best medical advice for avoiding the global Covid-19 pandemic and the fears, wisdoms and fictions it has generated.
Fears are not necessarily true. They are the stories we often tell ourselves, and fears  - like all stories  - have characters, (us!)  - and plots, imagery and suspense! They make us think about - and plan for - the future. Through the cautionary tales we were told as children about fears, we learnt to distinguish between fact and fiction: wisdom and stupidity.
Today, Jennie asks: "How should we deal with our fears?" We should take seriously the idea of being the author and the reader of our own fears. Listen on!

Sleep and Dreams

In today's address titled "Sleep and Dreams", Jennie ponders the functions and purposes of sleep according to sleep researchers. Jennie informs us about some of the health benefits of a good night's sleep and some of the possible consequences for us when we are sleep-deprived.

Freedom

Today's service - 22nd August, 2021, was conducted by our President, John Hall.

In the context of the Covid 19 lockdowns and protests against police-enforced restrictions on freedom of movement, John argues that our rights and our freedoms are never absolute and must be tempered with responsibility.

John's main focus today is on freedom of expression, and the caution and restraint we must all show in the choice of words we use to describe others - especially when they are drawn from prejudices that demean. Listen on!

Unitarians and Prayer

Today, Jennie, in her first address as our newly-appointed Lay Leader, reflects on the nature and purposes of prayer - both traditionally within mainstream Christian churches and within our own. Traditional forms of prayer are premised on an underlying assumption that there is consensus amongst church goers about commonly held beliefs. Jennie contrasts this with the purpose of prayer - or its absence - in the lives of many Unitarians - free as we are - to follow our own spiritual paths and beliefs. This includes the place of prayer in our lives - or its absence. She quotes from the words of one of today's songs about prayer -  "everyone prays in the end". "Well - is that so?" She asks. Unitarian prayerfulness is more likely to be manifested in "mental prayer" and meditation. Jennie proposes that prayer resides instinctively in the souls of most people - even we Unitarians! Listen on!

Faith - or foolishness?

Today, as we emerge from our second Covid-19  lock-down, Jenny, our President, in an address titled "Faith - or Foolishness?" reflects - via Zoom - on the phenomenon and genesis of recent Australia-wide street protests in response to the ensuing loss of freedom of movement and the need for universal vaccination. Jennie explores the responses of vulnerable groups who deny the advice of scientists and doctors advocating for universal immunisation and quarantine via lockdown. Jennie ponders the genesis of this denial and offers anecdotes drawn from most major religious traditions that illustrate the confusion between faith and commonsense. This confusion often arises from a failure to form a rational understanding of how God  - or Goodness works in the world. Groups that protest violently against the temporary loss of liberty imposed by a lockdown, prefer to believe conspiracy theorist-groups such as Q-Anon and certain sections of the media who grossly exaggerate the risks of immunisation and the temporary loss of liberty imposed by lockdowns. Listen on!

The Art of Losing

Jennie Dyster has called her address, today - " The Art of Losing". It's about the many forms of loss we all experience in our living: lost property, lost money, a lost competition, lost opportunities, lost places, lost friendships, lost love-ones, lost.....
Some loss can seem overwhelming - but, with the right mind-set - it may also be ennobling and enriching - even empowering!

Jennie cites some who've risen above deep personal and tragic loss to become an inspiration to us all in our time of loss.
She quotes from the American poet, Elizabeth Bishop who - in her poem - One Art, writes: 

"The art of losing isn’t hard to master;
so many things seem filled with the intent
to be lost that their loss is no disaster.
Lose something every day. Accept the fluster
of lost door keys, the hour badly spent.
The art of losing isn’t hard to master.
Then practice losing farther, losing faster:
places, and names, and where it was you meant
to travel. None of these will bring disaster."

Jennie goes on to explain how. It's the Art of Losing! Do listen on!